Today my son turned 29. It seems odd that he has gotten so old while I remain so young. Truth be told, his birth was a turning point in my life. One so helpless and so open was given into my care by God. The adventure has proven to grow my patience and expand my definition of wonder. Since Christmas is before us, I cannot help but share the story of his love for Christmas. Each year he set out to decorate the tree, that was his job. His Dad strung lights, he placed the ornaments. Well, he takes his time, setting them out, sighting the tree and placing them with love. Since we no longer live together, he has taken on another family tradition. He has learned to bake Swedish Coffee Bread. Teaching him this handed down tradition has been pure joy. We have only one problem, we learned a bad habit, we begin the process around 9 o'clock at night. Since this bread requires 2 risings as well as a braiding, you can imagine what time the 4 to 6 loaves are finished. He often is up all night long.
I do not know what God has planned for the rest of his life. I am so grateful for each moment he has lived, even those moments when I had to remind him to pick up after himself, do his homework, and wash his clothes. His spirit is so gentle. His willingness to stand for what is right so strong. His love for the defenseless brings out the warrior. But, what touches me most is how he is present to the moment, and lives it fully. His laughter starts deep in his belly and erupts throughout his whole being. If he calls you friend, he will be loyal to you no matter how far you stray.
Happy Birthday Son! May the Lord bless you this year with the vision he has for your future and may you have the courage to step into that vision and give it roots.
On this day, allow joy, allow love, allow God,
One of Many
Voice of the Day from Sojourners on his birthday - “Following Jesus will mean surrendering the power that masquerades as security in order to love the neighbor and welcome the stranger. It will mean avoiding the safe path in order to pursue the good.”
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